Most new moms want to keep everything involving the birth and the first few years of their precious little onesโ lives: from tiny locks of hair (acceptable) to nail clippings and their first lip โpeelโ (not acceptable). What are the most notable keepsakes? Here are a few tips from Yashmitha Padayachee on what to keep and how to make your ideal memory box.
What you decide to keep will ultimately be dictated to by your storage space. Creating memory boxes containing birthday outfits, birthday newspapers and playlists are a great way to store notable keepsakes, and they can even be handed over to your child on their 18th birthday.ย ย
Where to Start
- A large plastic container
- Coloured pens
- Notebooks
These are the only items you need to create a memory box that will fulfil your keepsake needs from newborn through to the schooling years and beyond.
Being mindful of the โhoarder personalityโ that can take over a new mom, start off with a โmoreโ rather than โlessโ attitude. This isnโt quite like cleaning out the kitchen cupboard. The last thing you want is to get rid of something, only to realise too late that it had sentimental value and would have made a great keepsake. Keep in mind that these keepsakes will be looked at not only by you but by your children in 20 or 30 yearsโ time.
When to start it
You can certainly start the notebook during your pregnancy as a mini pregnancy journal, adding your sonogram printouts, notes about your cravings and so on. Theyโll make for excellent throwback moments. (Tip: Consider making a copy of your scans as they do tend to fade. Donโt laminate your originals. They will turn completely black because of the heat printing technique.) A must for the notebook would be babyโs hospital band, birthday cards, photographs and yearly handย and footprints.
What to keep
Ideally, keepsakes consist of all the โfirstsโ in babyโs life: first curl, first babygro, first booties. These items are perfect to add to your memory box to remind you of their adorable tininess, especially when they are teenagers and getting on your last nerve. The problem is that you canโt keep all of your babyโs clothes even though you really want to. Space will dictate what you get to keep. A cute teddy made of babyโs growers, or a quilt made of their bibs, are excellent space saving ideas. Either would create a lasting memory of the cuteness of their first year.
The notebook is a great way to keep a record of milestones and add a photo where possible. This way, you can make a mini album that can span a number of years. The key is to be consistent. Having the plastic container, coloured pens and notebook is one thing but randomly scribbling first tooth dates, heights and other milestones on odd pieces of paper lying around your home can throw your keepsake project entirely off kilter.
As soon as a milestone happens, write it in your notebook. Print any accompanying pictures to paste on the same page.
Who to include
If you have a largeย extended family, visit them to snap a picture to add to your book. There is nothing quite as special as having four generations together at the same time. As mentioned, the book can be used for as many years as the pages can hold. Once your child is at school, first and last day of school pictures are essential additions.
Nice-to-haves include:
- a copy of the newspaper from the day baby was born
- a music playlist from the week, month or year they were born
- a lock of hair, tied with a rubber band and ribbon
- a mould of babyโs hand and foot
- a โtooth boxโ for when they lose their milk teeth, each one a milestone that is hopefully documented in the notebook. Provided that you are able to get them back from the tooth fairy.
Keepsake Dรฉcor
Another way to record your little oneโs journey to adulthood is to keep beautifully framed photographs through the years. These framed photos can double up as dรฉcor, eventually being added to theย memory box.
Maintaining the Memory Box
As the years go by, youโll find yourself adding fewer items to the memory box, so itโs their first few years that are the most important when it comes to keepsakes. Start off with more and over time, youโre sure to not feel itโs entirely necessary to keep every pair of their socks. When you do get around to a memory box spring clean, be critical of what youโd like to keep and reminisce over it. Remember: the notebook can hold endless memories and takes up very little space.
Things to Keep in Mind
Consider how well an item will โkeepโ and take necessary steps to protect it from deterioration.ย This might mean laminating certain documnents to ensure that they do not degrade through the years.
Keepsake Ideas List by Age
Newborn to three years
- Hospital band and information sheet, which usually contains a birth footprint
- Coming home outfit
- First booties
- First mittens
- First receiver or blanket
- First traditional outfit
- First birthday outfit
- A lock of hair
- A birthday card or two
- A mini album: milestones, family events, baby meeting grandparents, siblings and pets, first bath, pictures from holidays.
Four to six years
- A few pieces of their artwork
- Mini album: school photos, group photos for extracurricular activities or clubs, pictures from travels, birthday cards and pictures.
Seven onwards
- Milk teeth
- A few more pieces of artwork
- An item of their uniform
- A favourite teddy who should by this age show the signs of years of love
- A favourite story book
- Mini album: school photos, group photos for extracurricular activities or clubs, pictures from travels, birthday cards and pictures.
